Spirituality, Divorce and Relationships

Divorce Took Me To Rock Bottom

One of the things that has been really challenging for me in the last five years has been going through a very trying and very difficult divorce. Being in a divorce situation where your husband is trying to get full custody of your children and all the toxic energy that surrounds these situations, is just so draining! So I really wanted to share some insights with other people who might be in a challenging relationship situation. Perhaps you are considering leaving your partner, perhaps you’re in a draining relationship, or even going through a divorce yourself.

Where Do I Turn When Divorce or Relationship Breakdowns Are Bringing Me Down?

The Lightseeker’s Way is all about trying to understand the spiritual aspects of these life lessons we are given. Our greatest challenges are also our biggest opportunities for growth. I call it trying to find the platinum lining. The platinum lining it is like the silver lining of a cloud but even more positive! When I’m faced with a particularly challenging situation I see it as a massive opportunity for personal growth. I try to search for the meaning and the life lessons are behind these really difficult situations. I have come to understand that the people you find the most challenging are, at a spiritual level, the greatest teachers.

Could A Difficult Relationship Really Be Teaching You An Important Lesson?

Viewing a difficult, hurtful or even narcissistic partners as a great teachers may not be something that sounds right at first, especially when we’re talking about someone who may have been intentionally hurtful towards you or your loved ones. To be clear I am not saying that these are wise wonderful people that should be revered or looked up to in anyway. But it is saying that at a soul level you have had an agreement with the soul of this person. Perhaps there is some karma needing to be repaid or maybe there is something that needs to be balanced in this life, or perhaps at a soul level they have agreed to give your soul this lesson to help you on your path toward ascension.

For instance I often look at the situation as a mirror. If someone is being hurtful towards me, I look inside and check whether I am being hurtful to myself. Am I loving myself enough? I’ve done a lot of work on self love over the years. I now know at a deep level that I deserve a loving, kind, joyous relationship because I am intrinsically lovable. It may sound obvious but often we unconsciously are punishing ourselves. The spiritual path is a path of reflection and self-discovery. We are not perfect. We are human. And we should love ourselves because of the imperfections not despite them.

Using Spirituality To Overcome Trauma.

Whilst, it is not an easy situation, trying to look at it as a lesson and seeing the person as a teacher can be a really useful approach and a way to turn something negative into an opportunity for spiritual growth. By accessing your highest guidance in these very challenging circumstances it gives us very interesting insights into the lessons we have to learn to move forward. It can also give us guidance in major decisions we have to make.

My Guidance Was Extremely Clear That My Marriage Needed to End

For instance for me my guidance was clear with me as to when I had to let my marriage go. As I have mentioned in previous videos, being clairaudient I hear my guidance as if they were sitting in a room with me. My guidance’s messages kept getting stronger to the point I was being shouted at “you have to leave”, “otherwise your health and your children’s health will be effected”. Connecting to your highest guidance can be amazingly empowering. It can give you that push to move forward and walk your best and highest path and to help those in your relationship groups to walk their own highest and best paths too. I have found these tools so useful and I want to share them with you too! My highest guidance has been fundamental to helping me thrive in some really difficult times. It has transformed my life and I want it to transform your life too!